“Do you have a picture of grandma?”
Preoccupied while frying bacon and measuring flour for a batch of homemade breakfast biscuits for three of my grandchildren who spent the night previous, my curious granddaughter asks the question again,
“Gaga, do you have a picture of grandma?”
A quick glance at the clock whose hands stretched out to wake and announce the sleepy hour of 5:30 in the morning, quite early for a little girl to be thinking about grandma still tightly wrapped in her blankie.
But, from the innocent mouths of babes, a child was asking.
Looking up at Aubrey with my full attention now, though still kneading biscuit dough from memory, this Gaga handled a granddaughter’s heart with delicate hands,
“Are you missing grandma?”
Secretly, I had also been missing my mother terribly these early weeks of summer; longing to share a glass of lemonade and the day’s nothings under the shade tree of our back yard together.
Now, here is a five year old, whose birthday was recently shared and celebrated with her sister Ayva turning seven, who also is missing her grandma.
Not having too many pictures framed and displayed in the house, I did remember a 5 x 7 keepsake hidden between the pages of my Bible for this sweet child to reminisce over; a moment taken at our 25th Wedding Anniversary three years ago.
I wanted my mother close whenever the waves of emotions for her rushed and reached the shore of my heart, usually during the quiet hours of my morning devotions with God.
In just a few short months this September, an ocean of memories will flood the vacancy our mother left behind when she waved good-by for heaven only two years ago.
With Aubrey recently blowing out the candles of her fifth birthday cake,
Only highlights the impact her grandmother had made during the three short years these two shared together.
My mother’s hand-print remains on Aubrey’s life and an entire legacy of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren as well.
(Aubrey with her grandmother on the left and attending grandma’s funeral on the right; just three short years and yet a little girl still asks for a picture.)
Aubrey isn’t alone in her longing for pictures of grandma, as six months ago at Christmas, her cousin Gracie was yearning the same.
In the spirit of Christmas and found beneath the tree, an album filled and full of grandma’s pictures for Gracie, a gift to comfort a little girl who also missed her grandmother.
My mother would have been eighty-two years young this July 21st, yet our family is forever thankful for the final picture we gathered together outside her window for…
An 80th Princess Gala Event in mother’s honor…
A perfect afternoon for the remaining birthday we’d ever celebrate with our mother, grandmother and great-grandmother this side of heaven.
Recently, Aubrey was watering the flowers of my tiny garden, not realizing many of the decorations of angels, wind chimes, birds and flower pots were once placed outside her grandmother’s window of her own garden;
A summer’s delight to lift a mother’s spirit during those lonely afternoons when family wasn’t visiting.
Mother’s love for the Lord is a families great inheritance she passed on down thru her legacy.
Recently, during a day I ached for my mother, God unearthed a treasure written in my mother’s handwriting, a gift of encouragement I have no idea how it was buried and hidden on my computer after all these years.
Your family loves and misses you mother.
Two years is but a blink of the eye for us, yet once you stepped into eternity with God, there was no looking back for you.
In your absence, I’ve had to take your place at the card table.
You’d be disappointed in the whiners and poor sports you used to play with, but actually be proud of the daughter who holds her own and plays in your honor for a game of Phase 10.
From the innocent mouths of babes, her heart was asking.
“Gaga, do you have a picture of grandma?”
Aubrey held her grandmother’s hand for only three short years, a matriarch who left her hand-print on the heart of a grandchild for a lifetime.
Aubrey Ann, your picture of grandma remains between the family bible pages where she loved her Lord from, the great inheritance your grandmother passed on down to you and her legacy of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
He guides your way and sets the pace,
Encouragement when loss of strength,
Keep firm your faith and feet before,
You’ve journeyed far, we’re proud of you,
Faint not, your God he runs beside,
Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easy entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.
You are all grown up; but that little boy still holds a special place in my heart.
Spoken from the pages of David’s heart …
Cousins came and took their spot just like the old days of family reunions.
Out of town great-grandchildren enjoyed the festivities through technology via Facetime.
Unattended but princesses still in thought took royal selfies for their great-grandmother to enjoy.
One by one, the avalanche of tributes from those touched by your life well lived before them.
Forming a line in front of your window, each family member added silk roses for the vase bouquet you’d enjoy days after your perfect day was a memory.
Heard from our mother’s window was the chorus of Happy Birthday sang twice. Princesses get an encore you know.
Gathered for a family portrait are lives that have been changed because of a Godly life well lived from one birthday girl blowing out eighty candles on her cake.
You are many things to many people; mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, cousin and friend.
